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Do you ever think back on where you've been in life, then fast foward to where you are currently and completely trip out?

In that same vein, do you ever wonder why certain people are in your life now that wouldn't have been earlier on?

What's that about?

When you find someone who loves and wants to spend the rest of their life with you, you probably shouldn't worry about what people at your high school reunion are going to think of this person, or you for bringing them. Odds are, you haven't spoken to any high school peers since graduating.

I often wonder how my life would be effected if just one choice had been different.

I'm horrible at keeping in touch with people and didn't manage to stay connected to anyone from high school or junior college for that matter. I can't even seem to stay close with family (I'm horrible... I know.) So now, things in life seem to be changing dramatically and I continue to grow and move further and further away from my past.

I've declared 2008 my year! In doing that, I go into this year with purpose and action.

So my first call of action is to reach back into my history and bring it to my present. Sounds a little crazy, right?

It's simple. Know all of those good memories you have? Think how nice it'd be if you could reminisce with the people you created those times with.

I have a favorite cousin who I haven't seen or spoken to since I was at least 18. Fast forward 10 years and she lives in Australia with a husband I've never met and know nothing about. Can you believe I found all of this out by searching for her on MySpace? Just think, I could be blogging about my Australia vacation instead of this.

Memories are important. Your past is one of the greatest teachers. Take it with you and when appropriate, let it guide your decisions.

PEACE
Msjames
"Redefining Well-Roundedness"

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